#Bridget
Every girl want to be curvy, trust me. It’s something that entices so many men, if not all. Even as a lady, you get to like what you see when you see girls with curves.
On social media, precisely Instagram, there are a lot of pages that just focus on collating the pictures of curvy girls, and trust me, by so doing they accumulate a lot, I mean, a lot of followers, and before you know what’s going on, they reveal their motive of putting up such pictures: to accumulate a lot of followers and turn the page into one for advertisements.
But what was the bait for getting everyone to follow them? Curvy girls (beautiful girls, who sometimes, are half naked) it works even up till just now.
Being largely endowed with the hips and butt is quite something you’d love as a lady, but with what comes with it, if you’re not the naughty type, you get to deal with a whole lot of shit.
Virtually everyone wants to have you. You don’t walked through a crowd without having 99.9% of the attention. It’s almost like you’re an alien who just landed earth and everyone is curious to see the strange creature.
One thing is, it is quite difficult to attract descent men compare to when you’re not in the promiscuity category. Many times than not, girls who are quite curvy rather use their body to make money one way or the other. So men automatically classify you as the every boy’s girl when you have an astonishing shape.
Anyone who’s in a relationship with you is either scared to lose you all the time or not fateful.
Most of the successful love stories you’ve heard, be honest with yourself, are not of girls with curvy shapes, I know you’ve noticed.
When I got into my first relationship, it was with Ken. He’s quite descent and I was ready to be with him. But like he told me when I found out he was cheating, his friend constantly reminded him that he wasn’t the only one I was going out with, they told him it was possible I was dating maybe 3 of them and that he couldn’t have been the only one handling all of that (me).
We broke up and the next was Jide, the artist. He was the descent guy who was always after his dreams and also looking for a girl he would spend his assumed blessed future with.
I was ready to be that girl, but the problem with Jide was, once he called and I didn’t take the call because of one genuine reason or the other, he flairs up and starts with long talks of how insecure I know he would be knowing how attractive I am and how it was possible that other guys could be speedily after me.
It was as if he was trying to stop me from talking to anyone that looked like a man. He just had it in his imagination that I’d be sleeping with any man I speak… Who does that?
The situation of things is understandable, I am attractive, but is that my own making, is that why are should be punished, is that why I can’t fall in love and someone will trust that I am faithful?
I am not the only one suffering from just being attractive, there quite a number of girls out there who are curvy and are just tormented by it, because men are either scared to fall in love with them or are not faithful.
Being curvy is not a crime, of course I know a lot of curvy girls have created the impression of promiscuity in the minds of men, a voice like mine is telling you, there are a lot of descent curvy girls out there. A lot.