Jolaade is 29 years old.A pediatric by profession.she spends almost all her time in the hospital, other nurses and doctors use to wonder if she has a boyfriend, not even an husband.She never talk about her private life to any one .Jolaade apparently see couples every day;The pregnant wife and husband, the ones looking for how to get pregnant and even the ones their husband don’t care about them . She use to wonder what her life will be like if she had her own husband because to her life wasn’t just fair.Her African society judged every lady at her age for not having husband.
Jolaade is a very lonely woman,with no little spark of love in her life .On sunny afternoon when she was off duty,she sat down to reminisce about her life.she hasn’t being in any relationship that last hope to 6 month.At first she thought she has a problem but thinking about it she laughs
No the problem is not with me ,the problem is with Ade or Ayo or Chinedu or Greg or Leo….. jeez!!!
The relationship all starts well but along the line she doesn’t know what exactly happened or what was off.At first, she tried to talk to them maybe they can tell her some faults but later she didn’t see a reason to .At family meetings,her mother,sisters and little always talk to about her .They even try to fix her on a date or hook her up with a friend or office counterparts. Some times she goes on the dates which turn out bad .some times she doesn’t even try at all
‘My mum tried fixing me up with chinedu,can’t believe I wasted 6 month of my life with that rigid fellow, who am I to think that relationship will lead to marriage self lol……”
Jolaade love story with Chinedu was so hilarious,Chinedu is a proper Igbo boy who grew up in an average Igbo family.Chinedu watched how his father run his how with an iron hand and he has always had this hidden intention to do the same with his family so that he can be greatly feared by his gf/ wife and children. Then he met Jolaade.Jolaade isn’t a typical Nigeria lady who can be curbed to do things a guy want, but she tries her best to prove and respect Chinedu decisions.In their relationship, there is always quarrel at any given opportunity until the lady Chinedu crosses his limits and slapped her .She didn’t waste time to end the relationship.
Jolaade had a child to mother talk after three failed relationship she told her mum maybe she has a problem . Her mum and big aunties took her from one church to another, one praying mountain to another. She remembered vividly, how one of those prophets claimed Jolaade is from a marine kingdom and she has a marine husband that is why she can’t settle down and was advice to do some cleansing,that is how her life was for two years. One river bathe to another, bought ducks, pigeon, fruits and the rest still there was no improvement.
“It was after my last river bathe I met Greg.funny story I thought I was free from every thing like my final bus stop then kasala happened again….’
Jolaade met Greg one afternoon on her way to work . She bashed his car and was ready to pay for the damages which Greg agreed to , then they exchanged numbers . One month later ,they were an item .When Jolaade met Greg, she felt she has met the price charming she has being waiting for.He was everything she dreamed and hope for in a guy .he calls,send random text message,break fast in bed ,handy work And treated her like a queen.For a busy person that Jolaade is ,when she gets back from work every thing is always in place for her.She was so certain that at she finally met her “Mr Right”. The unexpected happened,she received a text message from a strange number claiming she is Greg wife;
“ hi am Mrs Greg Coker pls stay away from my husband, that is how you big shot career girls go about breaking people home.He is married with two kids let me enjoy my marriage in peace” …….. Just imagine dude has children!!!!!!!!
She was confused at first,thought it was all a prank so she decided to ask Greg about it when she got home . At first he was perplexed but later told her the truth and was claim he loved her but she decided to end the relationship.
“ that was the shortest relationship in my life ,imagine !!! 2 weeks”
Her friend Somto tried fixing her up for different blind dates,with so much persuasion from her , she went for some which all was a disaster, it’s either the guys lacked what she is looking win a guy or they are way below her level.Some times most of them even judged her that ; she being a career lady will give them a lot of problem.she is proud,rude and arrogant. When somto called her for one of the many blind dates she turned it down because she was tired of going in circles.Her mum always tell her that a woman should be submissive to have the so called “ Ade Ori” . Drop career aside and be humble.she felt what if everyone one has their own definition of “Ade Ori” or what if she wasn’t destined to have any one.
Jolaade laughed as she reminisce on her past experience of looking for a perfect guy.
“ maybe I don’t need a man in my life, I just need a baby to complete my woman being …”
She set out to look for a sperm donor that can help her conceive.A lot of people do it why can’t she.