Matters of the Heart

My Husband Just Can’t Keep Away From His Ex

BY IYANDA   •   June 26, 2014   •   3 MIN READ

My Husband Just Can’t Keep Away From His Ex

What is it about first love that most people find it difficult to sever all ties that have to do with their ex? I have been trying all I can to separate my husband from his ex for the past eight years without any success; and it just seems to get worse.

You can’t imagine the things I have done to separate Job from his ex. I have lit candles given to me by some spiritualists, I tried love portions at one point in time, and even threatened Angela on so many occasions. What have I not done to separate my husband from that Jezebel?

I won’t kill her because I am not a murderer, but I must admit that she is getting on my nerves and pushing my back against the wall. I have every reason to believe my husband has been charmed by that demon-possessed woman.

Prior to the time I caught them together at an eatery on the Island, things were smooth between Job and I. We were doing quite alright until he was transferred to his company’s branch office on the Island. Unfortunately Angela also works very close to my husband’s place of work, and that was how they started their lust story all over again.

Maybe I am missing something because a home that has two lovely kids (a boy and a girl), fat bank account, fleet of cars, and a future that is secured with investments in stocks is not doing too badly in my opinion if you ask me. Talking about intimacy, my husband and I have sex every other day until Angela came back into his life. What else does Job want that I haven’t done to keep our home intact?

I cook my husband’s foods, pamper him ,wash his clothes and rarely argue with him whenever there is a misunderstanding. I do all those things despite swimming in wealth, and having a maid that takes care of a few things at home. I am really lost for words because I feel helpless, hopeless, and ill-treated by the man I willfully gave my heart and love to when he came for my hand in marriage.

I wasn’t forced on Job, and you will be amazed to know that he still carries out most of his responsibilities towards me, but I guess you never know what to expect from a man who is into adultery. I am scared that Angela could become desperate and decide to harm my family.

Though, Job continues to deny he has anything with Angela, I still hear jist from people . I am too scared to nag him since that will only drive him into the arms of his mistress, but how can I not confront him when it is obvious he is cheating on me.

I have resigned to fate since all efforts to make things go my own way have all proved abortive; but any advice that will help to put an end to the relationship my husband is having with her ex will be highly welcome.

Please do not suggest love portion as I won’t even give it a thought anymore.