Most women marry their men hoping they would someday change from being a player to being a “responsible” person. In other words, they hinge their marriage on hope. They knew from start that the person they are about to get married to doesn’t have all the qualities they want in a man; but they are just being “blinded by desperation.” The question we want to ask today is: is it safe to marry a man hoping he would change? If this is not a risky venture, how would you react when your man suddenly continues to play the unfaithful husband?
If he was cheating on you while you were still dating or courting each other, is there a guarantee he would abandon his playboy way and settle down for real? Why are some ladies so desperate to tie a man down to marriage even with glaring evidence that the man may not be the ideal one? Is marriage the true yardstick for measuring a woman’s achievement in life?
Ladies what has been your most painful experience when you suddenly discovered that the man you married has refused to “grow up”?
