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Is It Normal To Continue Lusting After Another Woman Even After You Are Married?

BY IYANDA   •   March 24, 2015   •   1 MIN READ

Is It Normal To Continue Lusting After Another Woman Even After You Are Married?

For some people, being married doesn’t change anything especially when it has to do with flirting with other ladies/guys. Some people do not see anything wrong with it. As a matter of fact, it is the view of some people that the hearts or our emotions cannot be caged; “it must be allowed to do what it wants.” This brings us to the question of the day: is it normal to continue lusting after another woman/man even after you are married?

Does marriage really change the way we are? Is it a violation of our marital vow to lust after other women/men when we come across them? What does being in love with someone mean? Does it mean we are no longer allowed to express our emotions to other women despite the war going on inside of us? Can a man/woman really cage his/her emotions and prevent it from going “astray”?

This has nothing to do with encouraging infidelity in marriage; rather it has more to do with the rate at which a lot of married people keep or continue to keep extra marital relationships outside their marriage.