I sneaked a look at Ella as Dapo inserted the ring into her finger. She never told me she was getting married until few weeks to the appointed date. Peradventure I am the fool of this story. I said as the officiating minister pronounced them as husband and wife. At first, I thought of disorganizing the event, but that would display me as a bigger fool.
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I think you should listen to a little part of the story.
Ella is a lady I so much love. I proposed to her, but she didn’t give a Yes or No and she didn’t want me to stop the special attention I gave to her. I gave her comfort when she needed it. We cried together, laugh together and had much fun together. I do not hesitate to give her money whenever she needed it. This continued for 3 years without a Yes or No from her.
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Just then she declared her wedding plans to me. The news pierced my heart deeply. It was a bad news for me . I cried as though I lost all I had. I prayed severally for things to change before the wedding date. Perhaps, she could have a change of mind. At some point, I wished it was all a joke, but the final declaration from the officiating minister opened my eyes.
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All those young men that are screaming about, “I love Mary, I love Shade, I love this, I love that and I will patiently wait for her to give me an answer, even when she is not ready to say a No, Yes or a simple “please let me pray about it”. Please gather here, let’s have a sane discussion.
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See, when you propose to a lady and she is not ready to say a Yes, No or a simple “please let me pray about it”, and she is keeping you to herself, exhausting your pocket, using you as a comfort and even wanting you to treat her and care for her like she is your girlfriend. Please kick her out of your life. She is only blackmailing you emotionally.
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Such ladies uses this to keep you to themselves, they use this as a tool of threat towards you, sending a false signal that if you can do all they want, they will accept for you. They get angry when you don’call them and all sort.
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Phew! Big lie. A lady with a godly heart will never do this. It is pure selfishness and cruel act.
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Sadly, some young men have been in this trap of emotional blackmail for years. They keep satisfying her with the hope that she will one day accept them.
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Please receive sense today and cut off such ladies because they will soon leave you after using and hurting you.
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To those of you that derive pleasure in blackmailing others emotionally I have no business with you today. I am only concerned about the folks suffering from your evil act.
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Dear young men,
Please dust yourself and free yourself from this manipulation. If one lady doesn’t accept you another one will.