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The Agony Of The Abused

THE UNEXPECTED

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I opted for suicide

“Not again please” I screamed within me. Dapo had told me the last time I visited him that next time I come around we should have sex. This is actually not the first time the issue of sex would be causing a contention between us. I wanted to give up on Dapo, but living without him was not thinkable for me.
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Therefore I had no option than to give in to his demand. Please don’t castigate me yet, what else would I have done to save my relationship and let my world stay true to me. Dapo is my world, my everything. He is always there for me whenever I needed him. We have pull through a lot together and I can’t even dream of living without him. Anyways, things was going well between us until the unexpected happened.
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Maybe I shouldn’t have allowed him steal my heart at the inception. Don’t even start to guess. Dapo didn’t jilt me. No! It isn’t a story of jilt this time. Reading that letter messed my life.
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“ Dear Vivian,

I am so sorry for just letting you know about this, but it isn’t my fault as I just got informed about this too. My parents said we are relocating to London tomorrow. Please move on without me. I will be fine and I hope you will be fine too.
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Yours affectionately, Dapo.
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Tears gushed down my eyes as fear of the unknown gripped me. How would I cope with a life without Dapo. He is all I have got. He was my source of happiness. No one makes me smile like him. I tried putting a call through to him but it didn’t go through because he had travelled by the time the letter got to me.
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Poor me, I resorted to suicide when depression ate me up deeply. Yes! You saw that right. I opted for suicide.
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Dear young ladies,
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Why in the world will you make a man your source of happiness? Why will your boyfriend be all you have got? What about your life? What about the place of God? What about your purpose and destiny fulfilment? People who tie their happiness to the presence of their boyfriend or girlfriend in their life are not WHOLE. They are absolutely not ripe for a relationship nor marriage.
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Why would you give up on your life because a guy/lady left your life. Isn’t it absurd to your hearing? It is a pointer that you are not WHOLE.
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To be whole means to be complete spiritually, emotionally, mentally and intellectually. To be complete spiritually means that you know the place of God in your life and you have a personal relationship with him. To be complete emotionally means you are aware of how you feel and you are able to control it. If your emotions still controls you it shows that you are not whole and that is the reason most of us commit suicide after an emotional heartbreak.
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To be complete mentally and intellectually means that you have the right knowledge. Many of our parents lack the right knowledge to build a successful home, that’s why there are so many broken homes. How many books on relationships have you read? How many seminar on relationships have you attended? Have you even consulted the Bible to know the template of God for marriage. Please embrace knowledge.
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You are whole when you don’t go into a relationship because you need someone to complete you.
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To save yourself of unnecessary heartbreak please get whole before considering a relationship. Get busy with your life. We are tired of hearing the news of suicide all because of a broken relationship.
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GET WHOLE!

CREDITS: LOVEBREED

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