Oh God, now I am deeply soaked in sin. How do I turn to you? Maybe I should have just ended the four years relationship. “Who cares if it’s four years anyways”. Shalewa said resting her left hand on my shoulder.
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“You should have shared this with me before now. Why now? Why now that you already ate the fruit? Shalewa screamed in tears.
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Shalewa, please, this is not the time to blame anyone. I needed no one to tell me what Kelvin would have done if I hadn’t given in that last time. He wouldn’t have think twice before breaking up our 4 years relationship. I just wanted to protect our relationship and now that last time is yet to come. He never stop asking for more since I allowed him and he said he wanted to check if we were sexually compatible. Hasn’t he discovered that yet?
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“Debby, you have to create that last time yourself because Kelvin doesn’t look like he is ready for a last one.” Where do I start? I am finished.
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You aren’t finished my dear. You should learn from your mistakes and move on. Our mistakes should not pin us down for too long. Moreover, it’s not too late to retrace your step to Jesus. He is ready to accept you back no matter the gravity of sins.
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Dear singles and unmarried folks in relationship,
I understand you want the best for your future home, but listen, there is actually more to marriage than sexual compatibility. I understand you are scared of sex causing issues in marriage, but what if your sexual life is okay and issues are arising from other aspects of your marriage. What then will you do?
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Marriage has its ups and downs. Your partner must be willing to walk through both times with you. That’s why you will sign for better and for worse. Many young folks have been drown into sexual sins all because they wanted to test their sexual compatibility. There are couples who didn’t enjoy sex at the inception of their union but after they sort for help and after they must have undergone sex counselings they are having a heaven on earth sex life now.
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See, a man who is unable to work this out with you in marriage will find it hard to work out even less tougher things and situations with you. Don’t be surprised if such a man walk out of marriage because you don’t know how to cook his native food and he can’t be patient enough for you to learn it. Like heaven will come before then.
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Testing for compatibility doesn’t mean your sex life will be perfect. It is a big lie from the pit of hell, designed to draw young folks into sexual sin. There are so many vital things to test rather than sex.
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Before you start thinking of sex compatibility, have you tested your visions compatibility? Have you tested your spiritual belief compatibility? If this aspects have not been tested and sex has been tested, I am greatly afraid for you. In fact sex should be the last on the list.
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If you think marriage is all about sex, wait till you get there. If you think sex keeps a man, wait till you get shocked after he finally had a taste of you.
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30% of unmarried folks who indulge in premarital sex never planned to make it a habit. Just a taste to know if they were compatible as crippled them in the act till today. Sex is sweet, just a taste can cripple you for a lifetime. Beware, sex is sweeter for the married.
CREDITS: LOVEBREED
