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Would You Go Ahead With A Planned Wedding Even After Discovering Your Partner Is Terminally Ill?

BY IYANDA   •   May 20, 2014   •   2 MIN READ

Would You Go Ahead With A Planned Wedding  Even After Discovering Your Partner Is Terminally Ill?

This is a very difficult question to answer. It is also a difficult one to decide and even more difficult to do. A real test of your love.

Alright a lot of us already know that you have a moral obligation to stay with your wife or husband if she or he suffers from terminal illness; but what if this happens before marriage? Are you morally obliged to go ahead with such wedding just to prove your love?

Sincerely, would you want to go ahead with your wedding plans should you find yourself in that kind of situation? Would you do it out of pity? What would your motivation to go ahead with such wedding plan be?Is it truly because you do love the person?Is it wrong if you decide to walk out of the relationship because you know you can’t cope in such a situation?

 Don’t you think the person does not want you staying with him out of pity. He might  need love and support but is it easy to give such when you find yourself in such a difficult situation?
 
Yes, we do know that love is enduring both in sickness and in health which are words you might have said should you have married.But even when married,would you have considered a divorce if he was diagnosed after marriage.
 
Shouldn’t you be honest with yourself  even though you might find yourself  filled with guilt and frustrations. Maybe this is not a situation that you can handle and  It will be better for the both of you if you can both discuss about it.
 
What will you do if you find yourself in such a situation?
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