Unanswered Questions

Why Are The Good Girls Ending Up With The Bad Guys?

BY IYANDA   •   February 28, 2017   •   1 MIN READ

Why are the good girls always ending up with the bad guys? This is one of the very many things I have observed, yet can’t find simple answers to. Even the few that have tried to explain this have failed to convince me why a good girl would always end up in the arms and homes of men who simply do not deserve them.

Is love truly blind? How can one reasonably describe or explain a situation where a good guy tries endlessly to woo a good girl, but never succeeds—but the same girl is sticking to a bad guy regardless of how she is being treated? Is there a special trick or secret these guys have that make them more attractive to guys who don’t have good intentions towards them?

Yet some ladies cry out for lack of good and responsible guys to settle down with; but they continue to snub the good ones.

My definition of a bad guy in this context means someone who is a playboy or who has other motives besides treating a lady right. He only wants to have the better of her and move on to the next victim.