Marriage is the ultimate for any woman who is still single and searching. However, it is a different kettle of fish if you are already married and not having the best of times in your marriage.
Got married to Shina; a man of my dream about five years ago. Shina and I dated for three years before we got married in 2000, and our marriage was a dream come true for me. He symbolized everything I wanted in a man, so you can imagine the kind of joy that filled my heart the day we tied the knot.
However, the problem for me is that I am not happy because Shina is a different person from the man I dated for three years. The Shina I dated and courted for three years was caring, kind and faithful to me. However, the Shina that is now my husband is different and does not have any of the qualities that he once possessed.
He now talks to me rashly and cheats on me. I have caught my husband with other ladies on several occasions. The most painful and scary part of this is that Shina doesn’t even deny some of the allegations I throw at him.
Just two days ago, my husband left me a note at the side of the bed confessing how he has been unfaithful to our marriage. He said his heart is with someone else despite the fact that he still wants me as his wife. Is it possible for a man to still want you as his wife while showing deep interest in other women?
Shina has failed to return back home since the day he left me with the note. He has refused to pick my calls; but was able to send me a text message asking me to forgive him. He also promised to do all within his power to see that our only son does not lack anything.
Dear readers please help me out because my husband has left with another woman. He is not replying any of my chat messages, despite overwhelming evidence that the chats were delivered and read by him.
I haven’t wronged Shina in anyway and as a matter of fact, I served him with all my heart. I was faithful and have remained faithful to him right from the time we started dating until we got married. Cheating on him has never crossed my mind despite the fact that he never bothered to touch or make love to me for close to seven months before eventually moving out of the home.
Please I need your advice…
