Is It Wrong To Open Up To Your Partner About Your Sexual Desires?
Excuse me ladies and gentlemen reading this; I truly wonder what the big deal is in keeping quiet and not being free to express your feelings about sex and your sexual desires before you marry or even after being married? What is wrong in talking about your preferences ?Well its fine if you choose not to indulge in sex before marriage but what’s the problem in talking about it and letting your partner know what you truly like and find out if you are also both compatible in the bedroom department. Lol
I hear guys moaning about their wives not being able to do what they like or indulge in some sexual acts and this brings about the question .Didn’t you court her?Even if she is a Christian and she believes in no sex before marriage. Why didn’t you at least joking talk about what you do like?. Is it not a major factor in marriage?
Well, if that’s your take on relationship; I have no problem with that. As a matter of fact, we live in a society where everyone is free to either open up or ‘zip up;’ but what’s the fuss about people moaning about their partners later on?
I have heard series of stories of partners bottling up, and refusing to open up on their sexual feelings or appetite; even pretending to be saints. Alright, being shy is an excuse for some not to talk about sex; but what about those who have strong opinions against it?
Well, don’t you agree that it’s really important to discuss about your sexual interest before marriage because you might end up not liking the same thing your partner likes. You might be considered too erotic for your partner and you might not know this if you don’t discuss about it until you are married which might be too late and can actually break your home or encourage you into cheating on your partner.
So, spill it out and let’s find out what you think about discussing your sexual desires, appetite,fantasies and all what not before marriage.
Yes , it’s me Iyanda again with another unanswered question. Can’t wait to hear your opinion .
