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Is It Right To Consistently Deny Your Partner Sex?

BY IYANDA   •   December 8, 2014   •   2 MIN READ

Is It Right To Consistently Deny Your Partner Sex?

Take it or leave it, starving your spouse of sex in marriage is one of the factors that destroy a lot of relationships. In a city as busy as Lagos for instance, most couples in relationships hardly find time to get intimate. Excuses such as; ‘I am too tired,’ ‘I don’t feel like it tonight,’ among others.

Of course, your partner could get tired and may not be up to it a day or two in a month or week; but what if it becomes an everyday thing? Can you endure being snubbed consistently by your spouse? Even when you are hard-pressed for sex, can you be pushed to the extent of becoming unfaithful to your spouse?

Do you think some ladies use it as a bargaining tool in relationships nowadays ? Do they come up with many excuses just to avoid sex most times?

Why should a man or woman deny his or her partner of sex? Is it the ideal situation considering how important sex is in a relationship? Should a man or woman not be considerate of his or her partner’s feelings? When your spouse complains of fatigue, is it ideal not to be sensitive to his or her plight or situation?

If you found yourself in this situation, what would you do? Would you react angrily or handle the situation differently? Let’s find out what your thoughts are.