I am Not A Big Fan Of Oral Sex, But My Husband His More Than A Big Fan .
Definitely we have all been born uniquely. We are so different in the way we think, in the way we talk, and in so many other ways. While I agree that we must always respect the views and opinions of other people, I still think one should not be compelled to do certain things that make the other person happy to your own detriment. My husband is a very big fan of oral sex, but I find this highly disgusting to say the least.I also feel so bad about it and I question my christain values about it at times .Is oral sex a sin ?
Well you can call me old fashioned or maybe I am taking my christainity to another level.But I am of the opinion that sexual intercourse should happen the normal way .
It is not also about being African or question of morality; it is a question of what I find irritating. I have watched it on adult movies, and my friends have always spoken about it, but I have never really being able to bring myself to like it. It’s either sex the right way or no way; that is the way I feel about it. However, it is causing a big war between my husband and I as he sees it as one of the best part of intimacy.
We have had to abandon sex in the middle of the show on so many occasions because he wants me to use my mouth to do that thing. The sound of it irritates me so much that I struggle not to throw up when he comes up with the idea. It’s not like we don’t have sex, it is actually a matter of not enjoying it the way he wants because he thinks the best part of it is missing.
Don’t get me all wrong, my husband never jokes with his hygiene, and that is one of the things I like about him. However, I have a feeling that you cannot be clean enough to make me give you a blowjob as a lot of people call it in adult movies.
The fact that he has never stopped asking for sex no matter how many times we argue over oral sex makes me worried too. I am worried that some women out there might give him what he wants because he seems to be so obsessed about it that he becomes dull each time he wants it and I don’t give him.
I want to know if my marriage is in danger or not? Is he going to cheat on me if I keep turning him down? Please I need advice on what to do because our sex life is very boring now.
