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Dating A married Man

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Sometimes, love can come from any where.there are alot of cases most young ladies fall into. they Go for older married men because they feel they are the one that can take care of their needs. there are different case scenarios . Ladies have met a young dude fall in love and expecting every thing dreamy with the person , then boom, she discovered he is actually married, out of selfish reasons she will still want to keep the man.
lets say successfully you,ve found yourself in a guy that is already married ? ;like you having genuine feelings for him.Maybe for some reason you find yourself turning to married men for romance, and you can never
understand why.
Is it wrong to date a married man? Should you avoid dating him because he’s already taken?
This really depends. Are you planning on being shady and sneaky about it, or are you considering ethical
non-monogamy?
That’s right, there is an ethical way to date a married man. The key here is that his wife must know
what’s going on. If you keep it a secret, you will invite all kinds of drama and the situation is bound to
blow up in your face.
I’m not here to judge you, but it’s the truth: If you help someone cheat and lie, the bad karma will
eventually come around to bite you. However, if you’re willing to help a couple expand their relationship
and make it more open, then it’s possible for this arrangement to be beneficial for all parties.
Here is what you can do to openly date a married man without guilt .
Make Sure His Wife is On Board Don’t take his word for it. Speak to his wife yourself.
Unfortunately, there are people in this world who cheat on their spouse and convince others to help
them by spinning a story about how the relationship is “open” when it really isn’t. Verify this for yourself
if you want to avoid drama and keep from becoming an accomplice of someone else’s dishonesty.
In addition, try to figure out if his wife really is happy to share him with another woman, or if it is just
grudging obedience. If she seems to only be doing it because he convinced her, then bow out. It really
won’t be worth the explosive emotions that are bound to bubble up.Ethical relationships with married men are possible, but only if his spouse knows.
Try to Figure Out If Non-Monogamy is Something They Decided On Before You Showed Up Sometimes a couple will be uninterested in non-monogamy until someone hot shows up, then magically the issue comes up. Is this the case for the married guy that you’re dating?If so, this might spell trouble. He could be uninterested in actually leading a life of open relationships,and more interesting in jumping ship to another woman. You might be okay with this, but keep in mind that you could end up being the “home-wrecker” unintentionally.
Evaluate if the Married Guy is Mature Enough for Non-Monogamy,Has this guy’s marriage really evolved to the point where it can handle new people? Is he making mature decision to open the relationship up to other intimate connections? Does he see you as an addition to an already great relationship? Or does he have an immature view of the situation, and is only looking for something new and exciting because he’s bored of his wife?
If he’s just looking for adventure and wants to get away from the old battle ax, his wife won’t take too
kindly to this. Drama is bound to happen.
On the other hand, if the idea of having an open relationship is noting new to them and it was
established from the beginning of their marriage, then your presence is much more likely to be
welcome. This is the sort of situation where you can date a married man successfully and his wife will
even be happy for you.Does He Have a Good Marriage With His Wife?You might think it would make sense for him to look outside his marriage for fulfillment if his wife doesn’t do it for him, but this is actually a recipe for trouble. Don’t let yourself be the band-aid for their marital problems. Again, the ideal situation is that you’re becoming part of a mature and well established relationship.Unfortunately, many people who decide to have an open relationship do so for the wrong reasons. For example, they may decide to be non-monogamous as a response to cheating in the marriage, instead of addressing the actual root cause of the lies and deception. Don’t get involved in this kind of circus.

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