Unanswered Questions

What Is Wrong With Being Honest At First Date?

BY IYANDA   •   January 13, 2016   •   2 MIN READ

Did you know that a lot of people tell a lot of lies during their first date? What is wrong with being honest at first date? Does it devalue or reduce the quality of who you are as a person?

Before going out on a date with someone, some or most Nigerian guys and ladies always rehearse the tons of lies they intend to tell their dates. The reason why they do this is sometimes funny; with most people trying to show off or hide some dirty things that have happened in their past relationships. Things like these have come back to hurt them; turning them into liars in the hearts and minds of their partners.

Is it a crime to let a man love you for who you are? What is wrong in opening up to someone you intend to spend the rest of your life with? What is wrong in saying things just the way they are? The story doesn’t look too encouraging for a lot of spinsters too who love to create a false impression in the hearts of guys they have a date with.

Guys too are not left out because they always want to do everything within their power to deceive ladies.

Can someone please tell me what is wrong in being honest at first date?