Behind Closed Doors

Why Do Some Ladies Get Stuck And Refuse To Quit Abusive Relationships?

BY IYANDA   •   October 20, 2015   •   1 MIN READ

I have observed that some ladies are just stuck with the partner regardless of how much beating and abuses they get. They remain faithful to their boyfriends and refuse to quit even when faced with all sorts of abuses (physical and verbal). This very baffling and worrisome, especially in situations where you find that such ladies are being chased around by some nice and caring guys that have better things to offer them. Why is it so difficult for some ladies to quit an abusive relationship?

Is it safe or right to conclude that such ladies are under a spell or something? Is love truly blind? Does that mean they can find someone better than the person that continues to abuse and make them feel miserable all the time?

What is so special about that relationship that you have refused to quit despite all the physical and emotional pains you are going through in the hand of your ‘lover’? Of course, you are an adult, and that is why you said yes to him in the first place; but must you die in that relationship just to prove that you are a faithful person?