When a woman’s mind is bent on cheating on you, then you know there is no how she won’t bring shame to everyone around her; especially when she is caught. Temi brought shame to me and our two-year old daughter by sleeping with a junior colleague of mine in my place of work.
Temi why did you have to do it? If you had told me that you wanted a new car or a new house or a vacation outside the country, I would have given you—but had to descend so low just to show that women are insatiable.
I was away on a refresher course organized by my company somewhere in the northern part of Nigeria when that phone call came. It was a phone call from someone who rarely calls my number—my aunt had called me that evening just few hours after completing the programme for that day to inform me about my wife’s escapades. Aunty Tola is not one to keep her mouth shut when she sees or hears something; so she couldn’t wait for me to get back to Akure to be told of how she caught my wife with a junior in the office on my matrimonial bed. This can’t be true—how can Temi cheat on me? But Aunty Tola is not one to tell lies—not when it has to do with the future of my marriage.
How it happened and how they were caught remains unknown to me; but my wife is still sending emissaries to me—asking for forgiveness. I mean how do I forgive her for descending so low? I still see the young man whom she cheated on me with in the office; and the feeling of hatred towards him grows every day.
Temi wants me to forgive her, my parents and other family members are brimming with fire and threatening to deal with her if she ever comes near my house and my daughter again. Perhaps, I would have kept it a secret if I caught Temi and the guy by myself; but now everyone including my colleagues in the office knows about what has happened.
If you were in my shoes, what would you do? At the moment, the office is one of the most embarrassing places to be, while my home offers no iota of hope.
I really need your help—I need you guys on this blog to advice me on what to do…
