Unanswered Questions

Is It Right To Share Your Marital Secrets With Your Parents?

BY IYANDA   •   February 29, 2016   •   1 MIN READ

Did you know that keeping secrets in marriage is one of the basic ingredients of making couples strong and happy? On the other hand, did you also know that there are certain situations where you may be compelled to open up on certain secrets between you and your partner? Sometimes we are just compelled to do these things regardless of what we have been told in pre marriage classes; but is it right to share your marital secrets with your parents?

Should a married woman disclose every or most conversations she holds with her husband with her parents or even friends? Some ladies are weak when it comes to taking decisions on their own—especially when such decision is something they can’t share with their partners. A married woman who is constantly being bothered by another man may want to share such issue with her friends; but is it right? What level of information are you willing to share with your husband?

In marriage, is there a level of information a woman should share or should not share with her husband? Is it right to bypass your husband and share secrets with a third party? What about secrets between a woman and her husband; should it be told to a third party?