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5 Secrets Guys Want To Know About Ladies

BY IYANDA   •   October 17, 2015   •   3 MIN READ

Men always complain of not knowing enough about women—but women aren’t making things easier anyway. Ladies have their egos too, so it is not like something that is peculiar to men alone. Men want it simple—clarity of minds, and why women do what they do all the time. The following will give you a peep into what your woman wants and why she wants it that way.
How To Approach Her
Every man wants to know how to sweep a woman off her feet and get her to say ‘yes.’ No one likes being rejected; not in the least men. Top on the list of what a man wants to know about a lady is how to ‘crack her code’ and get her to say yes. Rejection to a man is like an arrow to the heart—it hurts so deep. Saying ‘no’ when he expects you to say ‘yes’ can bruise his ego; so he puts in all the hard works in order to get a positive answer.
Playing Hard To Get
A man wants to know why ladies sometimes play hot and cold or hard to get. This is one of the biggest weapons at a woman’s disposal. She wants to remain a mystery that a man has to work hard on to demystify. So every man wants to be sure a woman is not trying to friend-zone him; and this is such a difficult code to crack. However, it is not a great idea to drag him along if you are having trouble sorting out your emotions—you want to leave him out of it. It is nice to play fair with him and not try to act hard to get.
What Nails It For You In Terms Of Outfit
Men want to know what nails it for them in terms of what they put on. Is she the type that would fall for a guy that dresses flamboyantly or the not the easy-does-it kind of guy. So he constantly tries to find out from other ladies what type of suit or shirt to put on. He wants to nail it in order to sweep ‘miss cute’ off her feet—but ladies can be evasive sometimes.
Friend Zone
“Everybody plays the fool;” but it hurts when a woman plays a fast one on a guy. A woman’s mood sometimes makes it difficult for a guy to understand her standing in a relationship. He doesn’t want to be friend-zoned, and so will stop at nothing to know if he stands a chance.
The Truth About Sex
Ladies don’t want to give guys the impression that they want to get laid; this is natural considering how guys react after getting in-between the sheets with ladies. So a guy wants to figure out what a lady wants before going all out to declare his intention. The information he gathers from this helps him to know where he stands in a relationship; but this is always too difficult, especially when you are dealing with a lady that has some problems with her mood.