Sometimes it’s just not enough to move on from a relationship; not when you have been used and dumped by someone in a manner that affects your psyche and ego. The truth about relationship is that we sometimes find ourselves dating people who really don’t deserve us—we give all, only to get little or nothing in return; and no wonder someone who has dumped you in the past wants to reconcile. So are you ready to win his heart back? Here are five proven ways to make your ex jealous and want to come back to you.
Remember that you have got your own part to play in all these; and most importantly, you have to give these tips time to work…
- Be civil and mature in the way you relate with him: Your ex understands that ladies are weak emotionally, and so he expects you to be angry or moody because of what he did to you. He expects you to hit to seek for revenge or at least soak your pillow with tears; I am sure you are not going to get anywhere by doing that. Why not take him by surprise and act as if you have moved on and that you have no hard feeling about what he has done to you? You will drive him nuts by acting civil and matured anytime you come across him. That is one of the biggest secrets of making your ex jealous. As a matter of fact, this is one of the most proven ways to get your ex come running back to you.
- “Act” as if you are happy: Some little acting is not a bad idea once in a while when dealing with an ex that you honestly want to drive nuts. If you really want to learn how to make your ex jealous; then you have to be happy with him or act as if you are happy with him. Show him how you are better off without him and how you don’t even remember why you needed to be with him in the first place!
- Look good: Looking good is good business; that is what they always say. If you want to make your ex jealous and probably initiate the process of getting him back; then you have to start looking good in the way you dress. Update your wardrobe and get some designer wears, perfume, shoes, and some fancy looking jewellery. Show him what he has lost and that you are in better hands now. Guys don’t like to see their ex doing good and looking more beautiful than they were before the split; it makes them feel bad that someone else is doing a more perfect job.
- Don’t rush a reply to his text/chat messages: Now this is where it gets really hot because it is not easy when someone you have been with for a very long time texts or sends you a chat and you act as if you don’t want to send him a reply; but girl, it is the real deal! Don’t rush to pick his call and don’t rush in with a reply to his text or chat message. This time around, you are the one in charge; so run the rule!
- Confidence is essential: Your confidence has to be on the high side—no time to exhibit a deflated ego. There is absolutely no time to betray emotions as you cannot afford to let things lose while using the aforementioned tips. One moment of emotional madness could ruin the entire plan; so make sure your confidence is sky high.
There you have it; lure him into where you want him to be and take charge.
Good luck girl!
