On Monday we started a three-part series that can help you get your man to commit to a long-term relationship. Today however, we want to continue with the second part, which will further boost your chances of not only getting him committed the right way, but make him happy by doing just that.
- Live Your Life:
One of the sure ways to get a man committed to a long-term relationship that could lead to marriage is to live your own life. Don’t suspend your favourite hobbies and hanging out with friends just to be with him all day and all week. You have got your life to live; you have to make yourself comfortable. Don’t work yourself too hard just to please him; this is especially important if he has already committed to a long-term relationship with you.
- Switch Off Your Phones:
I know this might sound pretty odd, especially if you are heads over heels in love with him and can’t do without him even for one minute; but hold it right there girl! If you are constantly texting him or calling him or chatting with him on your BBM or WhatsApp, then you won’t have time to do other things. Dating is not designed to bore you out of existence—it should hold either of you back from living a normal life.
- Have Some Fun and Enjoy Yourself:
Live in the moment girl; let things sort out themselves. Stop being too anxious about when he is going to pop the question or else you will get him to start suspecting you are only interested in settling down. Let him have the fun of his life as this is the best way to earn your points.
- Don’t Go Jumping In His Bed At Every Call:
Now this is where a lot of ladies miss the train. You don’t go jumping in a man’s bed every time he calls or asks for it; it is the cheapest way to sell your reputation as a woman. Relationship is not all about sex, there are other ways to let your man know that you have got skills in other areas.
- Don’t Commit Him To Heavy Spending all the time:
Some girl’s way of showing how exposed they are when they are with a man is to demand that he spends big each time they go out on a date. Why do you have to go to a pricey restaurant all the time; to prove a point or what? Of course, he wants to impress you; but girl let’s get this straight, the economy is not making anyone comfortable at the moment. So stop pretending and let him know you enjoy homemade meals or dinner or eating some roadside barbeque sometimes.
So that’s it for the second series—will be right back for the concluding series very soon.