I am in love with a married man… Does he love me or simply using me?
Being in love with a married man is one of the hardest things in the world to deal with, especially if he is returning the affection and feelings, but still with his wife.
When you fall in love with a married man, it might seem like everything can work out and everything can somehow be great, but truthfully, it isn’t.
Just because you are in love and he says he is too, doesn’t mean that it is going to work.
If you’re in love with a married man and have no idea what to do, I have some opinions.
Firstly, girls, when did you all stop respecting yourselves?
While the man might be giving you tons of attention, gifts and taking you out, it really isn’t ever going to be a true relationship because he already has a family. You don’t ever want to be called a home wrecker or someone that is going to break up a family.
Instead, end it with him and really go through the breakup process so you can find someone free. Being in love with a married man isn’t going to get you anything but a lot of judgment and grief, girls!
So what do you do when you fall in love with a married man? Do you start an affair or do you walk away and never know what may have been. There is so much information about how to be a successful mistress and how exciting all the sneaking around is, but no one ever mentions what happens after the fun and games are over. I’m going to give you the stark truth, probably the truth you don’t want to hear. Don’t have an affair; it’s not worth the effort!
The best thing to do is to just walk away. I believe that when things are meant to be, they work out with ease. An affair is the complete opposite of ‘ease.’
So, besides the obvious moral dilemma, why exactly is having an affair such a bad idea? Well, I have a few reasons… actually I have many.