After Catching Me Cheating On Him, It Is Hard To Convince Him Whom The Father Of The Baby Is
Dear Iyanda, I am not the type of woman who likes blaming a man for the way another man treated me in the past. For all I care, not all men are the same.
Men are not beast, and sometimes you just have to question what some women truly want from a man. I have been dating Chuks for quite some time now, and you could hardly tell things were heading a different direction other than marriage. All I ever wanted in a relationship were made available upon request, and sometimes before I ever made a wish, Chuks would do all things to make me happy; but how did I pay him back?
Everything was perfect between Chuks and I until the day Emeka, Chuks’ boyhood friend came into our lives. Very handsome, cute, but very tricky a fellow; and those are just a very few words to describe him.
Emeka is a gigolo, who didn’t care if I was his best friend’s fiancé as he continued to make passes at me at every opportunity that came his way. Stupidly on my part, I didn’t repel his advances even though I hated it at first.
He was persistent, and would call me even while only a few metres away from my house. He did this day and night, and there was nothing I could tell him that would scare him away; not even when I threatened to report him to his friend.
One thing led to another, and Emeka and I started meeting each other secretly without the knowledge of Chuks. I was too naïve to know that I was gradually sounding the death nail on my coffin until Chuks caught Emeka and I pants down in a hotel. Who could have told him we were heading towards that hotel? Chuks has rightly broken up with me, and nothing in this world according to him will make him have a change of heart.
That is not the only problem I am facing at the moment, which brings me to the reason for writing this story. Before he caught me pants down with his friend in that hotel, I had already gone for a pregnancy test, and was told that I was two weeks pregnant for Chuks. If only I knew things were going to turn out this way, I would not have given in to Emeka but I just couldn’t resist him.
As things stand right now, Chuks has denied the pregnancy, he says he doesn’t want to set his eyes on me and that I should go and tell my stories to the marine. I know I was faithful to him prior to the time his friend came into my life. I don’t even know how to explain things to my parents because he keeps referring them back to me each time they ask for the reason for our breakup.
I need help, I need advice because I know I have made one of the biggest mistakes of my life.