I’ve always heard of stories like this in time past, and I was really quick to say they should never get married, now I’m in such dilemma and I do not think I’m ready to let go.
Love is the greatest force on earth, as far as I am concerned and I don’t want to believe that it cannot conquer this barrier.
I met my fiancé at the NYSC camp in Bayelsa, at that time I thought it wasn’t going to last long enough before we went our separate ways, but as time went by, our love grew stronger.
After service he proposed to me, and without thinking I said yes. We began preparation for the whole wedding, and we informed the elders in the church.
They asked us to do a series of medical tests which we did, but to our shock, we found out that we are medically incompatible, and the chance of survival of our children would be so slim as I am AS and he is SS.
But he’s been healthy all the while, falling ill just three times in the year, I thought to myself.
Now we are being advised to break everything up, and I’m not ready for this. At this point we have resorted to prayers, but I’m still a bit confused.
What should I do?
