Dear Readers: Should I Divorce My Wife?
As the S.U. (Scripture Union) president in the university, I had almost anything I wanted, including the girls, (don’t let your mind drift any further, I didn’t do any bad things).
I was very choosy with the kinds of ladies I had around me, because I knew the kind of partner I wanted to end up with. Growing up I had always wanted to keep myself until my wedding night and of course planned to get married to a virgin like myself.
I met “my wife” in school; she was the choir coordinator and as the S.U. president, we met at times for meetings and one thing led to the other and we fell in love. One of the times we discussed, she got to know my stance on getting married to a virgin, and I was more than delighted when she also said she always wanted to get married to a virgin, and I concluded that she was a virgin.
After a while we, got our parents involved and marriage was set. On the night of the 8th of March, after the whole ceremony, we were finally by ourselves, and “that time” came, lo and behold I found out that “my wife” wasn’t a virgin! God!
I couldn’t sleep that night, and kept wondering if she lied that she was a virgin just to be with me or she actually didn’t say she was a virgin, she only said she also wanted to get married to a virgin. At this point I am in a confused state, because I married her because I thought she was a virgin, now that I have discovered that she is not what should I do?
Should I go ahead and divorce my wife?