I’ve been married to this man for about 7 years now, and nothing has since changed. I met him as a handsome, young, perfect gentleman with well shaven beard, always looked sharp and trim and I got hooked.
I knew he had tendencies to cheat, I knew he drank a bit, but I taught the love he had for me was enough to change him to the man I wanted him to be, but down the line I have come to terms with it that I have failed in the battle to keep him clean.
He came all out for me; despite all he went through at the hands of my mother he still went ahead and made sure that my mother consented to the marriage.
It had put to bed a day before and was still in the hospital then I got terrifying news that my husband had another woman in the house. True to the news I got home and still found her there! Shocked I was and almost passed out. He apologized swearing never to do it again. Still battling with his cheating which he never stopped, he continued drinking, oh and did I add smoking, not just cigarette but Indian hemp!
I’ve had a torrid 7 years of marriage, and I’m still wondering if he will ever change!