I heard guys my age should be really sexually active, but my case seems different because I never have the urge to see a naked woman or touch them or to sleep with them. It just doesn’t cross my thoughts.

Though I was brought up in a Christian home, my parents were not the best of Christians or dedicated ones I should say, but they did their best to make sure that I turned out right.

I’m now in my second year in school and things haven’t changed as regards this. Some people I’ve confided in say that I may have tendencies to be gay, but far from it, I have not found any man anywhere attractive and I would not.

It’s beginning to give me some concern because I am not getting any younger, soon I should begin thinking of marriage and if I do not deal with it now, it may cause troubles in my home, which I don’t want.

I have never had a ‘girlfriend’, I suspect some of my female friends find me attractive, because I know I’m good looking and brilliant, but should I say it’s quite unfortunate I don’t feel anything in return.

Am I normal?