Hey ladies out there—want to find out if your guy is cheating on you? The truth is that most ladies would say yes to that question; but won’t want to admit that something fishy is happening to their relationship. Some ladies love to explain some flimsy reasons why their guy is acting strange.

You hear them say things like: “he is having a tough time at work,” “maybe he just wants to be alone” etc. The truth is that you have got to stop consoling yourself and face the reality. Guys are not as emotional as ladies; so stop thinking things that aren’t true when your guy suddenly starts getting tired of having you around. Here are some top 5 signs that show he is cheating on you or is tired of having you around:

He strays and acts differently from his predictable everyday behaviour.

The longer we stay with each other, the more we get used to each other and get to know a lot of things. You know how he acts and when he is no longer acting normal. If he starts acting strange and straying from his normal behaviour, then it is time to demand for an explanation. If he is not cheating on you, then there has to be an explanation—surely!

He now has unpredictable mood swing

If your guy suddenly becomes overly nice or get angry in an instant—this could be a red flag. If there is no reason for him to leave, but he wants to create one; then something fishy might be going on.

He now suddenly has a new hobby and new activities he wants to go to all the time (but never mentions it afterward). This is a glaring sign that something is wrong somewhere.

He starts losing track of the details.

He starts losing track of time spent together with you in the past or easily forgets some recent wonderful moments. Schedules get crossed and he won’t be able to keep track of where he was on any given day.

He suddenly needs a lot of privacy

If he suddenly starts craving for privacy and always seek excuse to ask you to leave; then you might want to pay close attention as this might be a red flag. Going into work early, leaving late, getting off the phone suddenly, taking lots of private calls from are also red flags.

He loses appetite for sex or has a drastic change in sexual style

A sudden shift in what’s “regular” or familiar in bed—without discussing wanting something new—is a big warning sign of cheating. Perhaps, he has a lady out there giving it to him in a different way from what he is used to with you while in the bedroom.